New York Child Custody Attorney
Educating yourself and navigating the New York law surrounding child custody can seem overwhelming. Because of this reality, many individuals who find themselves in a custody battle wonder if hiring an attorney is worthwhile. The answer is without a doubt, yes!
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The term child custody refers to visitation rights, not to be concerned with child support which refers to the financial aspect of raising a child. In child custody cases, the family court will determine the type of arrangement that is in the best interest of your child. In some cases, where both parents are on reasonably civil, the two parties can mutually agree on a plan that satisfies everyone. In cases where the two parties cannot agree then decisions will fall to a judge’s ruling or go to mediation.
Hiring an experienced Attorney WILL help
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While it is not required to enlist the representation of a lawyer who specializes in family law, it is advisable. Many individuals seeking to avoid spending money on legal fees choose the option of forgoing legal representation, not understanding the intricacies that go into a custody battle. We urge individuals for whom negotiating custody directly with their ex-spouse outside of court has failed to not try to then negotiate on their own behalf in the courtroom. Even if you are willing to put time and energy into preparing your custody argument, there are legal nuances and intricacies that you cannot anticipate without a legal education and experience. Hiring a lawyer becomes especially crucial when fighting for full custody, as courts typically try to split custody unless compelling evidence proves this is not in the best interest of the child. Hiring a seasoned lawyer will help you develop a strategy that will increase the likelihood of the outcome you desire.
There are certain circumstances where hiring an attorney is highly advisable. Parents need to take an honest look at their track records and past to ensure the slightest misstep does not keep them from being granted custody. For example, if you have a history of drug or alcohol abuse on your record, it is recommended that you hire an attorney. Blended families are commonly seen in New York state family courts, but if you are remarrying or have step-children or children with a different partner, the judge may scrutinize the child’s financial and emotional care more closely in these situations. Additionally, if you are in a situation that includes domestic violence or you are dealing with a volatile partner, hiring an attorney is one of the best ways to ensure your safety throughout the process.
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Before investing in a lawyer, many clients ask, how do I benefit from hiring a lawyer?
First of all, the process will most likely move faster. Secondly, there are many aspects of the proceedings that an attorney will handle entirely, including filing laborious, time-sensitive paperwork and tasks that include pre-trial orders, temporary custody orders, interviewing character references, and helping to select and prepare witnesses for court. Experienced, well-established child custody lawyers are typically familiar with the assigned judge, how they tend to rule, and other helpful insights. As both parents are usually expected to make their case to the judge, a lawyer will help coach a client through what to expect when facing tough questions.
Often times child custody cases involve divorce and emotions are high
A seasoned attorney will provide you with a neutral, trustworthy partner who will help pull you out of your emotions and develop the most sound and logical case to move forward. For example, your lawyer’s evenhanded approach to appropriate evidence to bring into court is invaluable to you, as someone who has personal and emotional ties to the case.
Child custody cases are stressful and many parents feel vulnerable navigating the legal implications alone. Stacey Pennetti is a highly respected and reputable New York lawyer who has helped clients get their desired outcome in child custody cases. Hiring a seasoned and empathetic lawyer may seem like a steep investment, but one that is necessary, worthwhile and in the long run immeasurable.